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Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 13:55
drinks party.

That was easy peasy.

Next.
Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 13:56
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that reminds me that I need to catch up on the BBC3 thing about the Edinburgh students.
sad banta
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:00
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"a thread for rof to decide your quandary"

ok, sounds interesting

"here is mine"

oh FFS !
Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:00
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I have a little buddha belly, but I rub it for luck, like people do with actual buddha statues.

have a few Scottish bellinis, and you'll feel fine.
Martian Law
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:02
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Im very bored and cant be bothered to do any more work. Don't have anything urgent on.

Do I:

1) Have a Clergham in the loos

2) Waste time on the internet doing random quizzes

3) Do some work
Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:05
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ML - 2.

Clergh - aye
Maid_Marian02
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:09
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Drinks
Get rid of the lard tomorrow
Next!
Maid_Marian02
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:09
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Drinks
Get rid of the lard tomorrow
Next!
Osama
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:13
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run to the party
Tom Linorder
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:14
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not much of a quandary tbf
Tom Linorder
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:15
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get p^ssed in the gym
Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:16
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I like Osama's lateral thinking. That kind of problem solving will take him far, so what Ossie said.
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:20
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Go to the party.

I have two.

1. Should I have a second baby even though it's hard work and expensive?

2. Should I switch jobs to one that is better paid but an unknown quantity (current job is v much a comfort zone and I neither love it or hate it)?
Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:24
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1. - have the baby

2. stay, if you have the second baby; leave if you decide not to.
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:31
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Second one would be easier if the first one was 21 already Tricky!

Why do you think yes to 2 babies JC?

It may not be my choice anyway, being 40.
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:42
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Interesting. I read that once you hit 40, 90% of your eggs are chromosonally abnormal. That's another con - increased chance of downs etc.
B'A'M
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:45
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have more than 1 kid

3-Dux is (I assume) an only child. you don't want 3-Dux being the one visiting you in a care home do you?

irrefutable logic
Father CYPmas
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:45
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go for a run, go home, shower, go to party, meet someone for sechz.

2 work outs. then you can forgive yourself the kebab and 9 pints.
Judy_Carter
Posted - 17 March 2017 14:51
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gah I am 40 soon and childless. Need one soon.
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:09
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There is no way to rationalise being/wanting to be a parent.

On one hand, I believe it is the best thing I have ever done. On the other, my time/life is not my own anymore, which is crushing.

The only hope of recovering a semblance of pre-child life, is to stick with only one. And yet, I held my neighbor's newborn this week and very much wanted another.

No logic.

I didn't really have any expectations going in to it, Clergs. What I can tell you is that, for me, the really heart-squeezing feeling of love didn't kick in until he started to get a little older. In the early stages I was just fixated on protecting him and nurturing him. Now I lie in bed in the mornings, looking forward to hearing him wake and planning what we will do for the day. And I often just sit there looking at him at marvelling. It's V much like being in love.
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:20
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Tricky what about play dates? That way you can pick the nice ones and send them home when you've had enough.

Nappies/ doesn't bother me. The things I most hated were - the 6 weeks of nausea at the beginning, sleep training, and the phase when they're mobile enough to get hold of everything but not clever enough to Realise that some thing isdangerous/disgusting etc.
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:21
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Righto -sounds like a plan.

Also, how do you know that your mum didn't love you?
Misshoolie
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:22
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Two are easier than one.

The second is easier than the first

This is based ebthrely on my subjective experience not peer reviewed research FAOD
Betty
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:29
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Well it's good that you have come to terms with how she is. Sad for you dad though at least he has you.

Ok I'm on 3% so def time for someone else's quandary.
Misshoolie
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:30
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I didn't get morning sickness with either of mine - one was a hell beast and the other slept through from three weeks.
Coracle Lolling
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:33
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hm. do you think if a person doesn't get morning sickness they might also have a magical sleeping and continent baby?

With a baby that size just think of all the stretching.
Mufcsan
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:36
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Run home from work, or quick HIIT session, then do the party.
Misshoolie
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:37
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No but the second became spontaneously continent at night at about ten months. I continued to put a nappy on her just in case, but she never weed or 'd in her sleep beyond that age.

She's now a tyrannical 5 year old mind you
Ash89
Posted - 17 March 2017 15:42
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Wait, is Betty going to change jobs?!

WE CAN CHANGE JOBS TOGETHER!