Dating to sex

How long should one wait from the first date?

If I goto sex to soon I get a bit put off the dating bit and want to move to the next. 

So I'm trying really slowly this time. But my dating partner is not keen and was expecting sex on the first date. 

It all depends on what feels right.  Some times that might be first date other times it might take weeks to to a point where the opportunity presents itself.

Lol. Gay guys are so hardcore.

This is where straight relationships are going now too.

Girl: 'oh whaaaat?! You don't want to tie me up shibari style and bum me?!?''

Muggo:'not really. I said 'can I have a pint of lager please?!'