Reformer Pilates

I've been doing this (almost) every day for over six months.

I don't have a Pilates girlie body.  What am I doing wrong?

are you doing it with a coach present and making adjustments in the room, or in a large group / online setting? THe latter two are utterly pointless and the branded classes are a massive grift, with instructors who have done a week's course. The only way this works is in 1-1 or tiny groups with a properly qualified instructor who is breathing down your neck constantly. Same for mat pilates.

The difference between doing it wrong and making it work is minute and you need a hawk eye on you to ensure you're making it work. And the person with the hawk eye should ideally be someone who is a former dancer who has done extensive training themselves and has all the anatomy qualifications. Once you find them, hold them close and do not let go.

Is of course excellent for golfers :)

I do it in small groups with very well qualified instructors who are good at correcting, etc.

The studio is next to a cafe that sells very tasty chocolate chip cookies though.  :-(