Worth studying Woody Allen in Play it Again Sam. Surely one of his best.  Great instruction and reassurance to us all. 

Here he is playing it cool and flirting with a blind date https://youtu.be/uNLd_HpyeBw

yes I know Hoolie will say Dude nobody has youtube at work etc but maybe some of you do. 

And for those that don’t there is a magnificent bit where he is trying to land lines to a prospective lover, being prompted by ghost-mentor in the form of Humphrey Bogart from Casablanca, but he’s fumbling them. When prompted to tell er ‘I have never see such beautiful eyes on a woman’ he tells her ‘I’ve never seen so many eyes on a woman’.